Hello all my world wide friends.
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In today's globalized world, International marriage is quite common over the world.
So, the basic purpose of my post is to give some information about International marriage. I want to evaluate and share my own opinion as well about International relationship.
Does anyone have thought about an International marriage before?
Firstly, what is the International marriage?
It simply means a marriage between two people from different countries.
There are many kinds of International marriage, but at this moment, I just want to talk about the marriage which based on sincere love, not about for personal gain, for example, get a permanent residency or get a job in other country and for make some money in other country.
As the world economy developed, lots of people enjoy their travel to other country in their vacation, someone would like to get a job in other country, some students might be want to study abroad. Overall, all we have get lots of opportunity to go abroad, and in the meantime someone could find their fiancé.
Then let's talk about good points of International marriage.
First, we can learn and understand partner’s cultural difference.
Marriage means two people have to live together, and they naturally acquire new culture which means can get to have wider understanding of their cultures. We also can be a more globalized person than others.
Second, your children can be a perfect bilingual.
Now a days, speak foreign language can be a one's strength.
Your children can learn at least two languages without any extra lesson.
You don’t have to worry about how to teach them foreign language.
Being bilingual could be a great asset when he or she gets a job.
Third, you may have got many friends who have different nationality.
If you need to live in your partner’s country, you would adjust there life, meet new people and be a friend with them. If you are outgoing person, it would be easier to you.
But, it has bad points as well.
First, I said that we can learn and understanding partner's cultural difference is a good point. But, ironically it could be a bad point as well.
Sometimes, cultural difference and language barrier can be frustrating.
Two of them have grown up in the very different cultural background about thirty years. And it’s a hard thing that learns the other's culture in a short time.
The difference of that could produce misunderstanding.
Badly, if you are not quite good at your partner's language, this situation will get serious.
Second, one of the two has to live away from their own family and country.
And they will miss their family or friend and feel loneliness in a new society, it obviously can be a really hard to overcome to them. It might be a big stress to them.
Plus, in abroad, it’s hard to find truly delicious your local food restaurant. So, you will miss your local food.
Until now, we have talked about the good and bad points about the International marriage.
And now, I'd like to talk about my own opinion about this.
Even if International marriage has some bad points though, but I still think that if two people sincerely love each other, they absolutely can overcome some hardships which expected.
I believe that time resolve everything. As, time goes passes they become accustomed to the other's culture, and the bad points would be disappear gradually. We need to admit that it is very natural that two different cultures will crash. I prepared a video about cultural crashes.
So, do you think what my recommendation is?
I think International marriage is a good thing and I sincerely would like to recommend it to all of you. The big reason that supports it is I also have a kind of relationship.
I wish more and more people get to find their lover who has different nationality, and you guys can more mature in the process of your relationship.
